Neil Hopcroft

“There’s something cold In the way you touch me, It’s just a feeling that you’re better without me”

I really shouldn’t listen to Mesh, should I?

How do you get closure?

Categories: Memories.

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ex_lark_asc

2005-04-13 at 21:49

You cut out the Mesh, delete the photos, clear out the reminders and fucking ignore the whole thing. Next time you stumble across them it’s not so bad; lather, rinse and repeat. Eventually you find it’s not hideously painful any more, and you can think about it level-headedly; which is often the point at which you realise something new, or manage a friendly conversation instead of glaring or running away.

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dmh

2005-04-13 at 22:06

With a lot of space and a lot of time. :o(

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sushidog

2005-04-13 at 22:08

With very very great difficulty.
Mainly, I guess, by getting on with your life while you’re waiting for closure to happen. After a while, you don’t think about it so much. And eventually, it happens while you’re not looking.

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purple_peril

2005-04-13 at 22:42

You wait approximately 3 years.
And do lots of fun stuff in the mean time :)

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- neilh
  
  2005-04-20 at 08:21
  
  The best answer yet…everyone else seems to wallow in it somewhat.
  
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karohemd

2005-04-13 at 23:45

No, you shouldn’t listen to Mesh but my reasons are probably different to yours…

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mr_flay

2005-04-14 at 07:16

Hoo boy. Don’t know, but if you work it out, bottle it and make your fortune.

And what said.

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